In Matthew 5, Jesus tells us how far we should be willing to go. Not only for those who are kind and deserving, but also for those who you are not deserving.
Read the following scripture:
“…if anyone wants to sue you, and take your shirt, let him have your coat also. (not exactly a friendly encounter) And whoever shall force (not ask) you to go one mile, go with him two.” How could our Lord and Savior expect us to do kind things to someone who is attacking and forcing us with a selfish attitude? Does it make sense that we should just ‘roll over’ and give in to the demands of a cruel, somewhat childish, but most certainly domineering personality? In this same passage Jesus says in verse 39…“But I tell you, do not resist and evil person. If someone strikes you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also.” How does God expect us to just stand around and be a punching bag to a violent, egocentrically strong-arm? Will your conscience let you do that?
Remember I Corinthians 10:13, “No temptation has overtaken you but such as is common to man; and God is faithful, who will not let you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will provide the way of escape also, so that you will be able to endure it.” This should give us confidence to know that even when things are hard to understand, God will help us overcome difficult circumstances. When we are ‘forced’ to go the extra mile, we do it because of Christ’s example.
In 1908, Johnson Oatman wrote a song that reminds me of going the extra mile. The chorus resounds with the title, “When I’ve gone the last mile of the way, I will rest at the close of the day, and I know there are joys that await me when I’ve gone the last mile of the way.” Notice each verse as the song builds; we consider working daily (vs.1), to seeking the lost (vs 2), all the way to the end of this physical life (vs 3) and final till we reach the hope of eternal life (vs. 4).
“If I walk in the pathway of duty, 
if I work till the close of the day,
I shall see the great King in His beauty
when I’ve gone the last mile of the way.
If for Christ I proclaim the glad story,
if I seek for His sheep gone astray,
I am sure He will show me His glory
when I’ve gone the last mile of the way.
Here the dearest of ties we must sever,
tears of sorrow are seen every day;
but no sickness, no sighing forever
when I’ve gone the last mile of the way.
And if here I have earnestly striven
and have tried all His will to obey,
’twill (it will) enhance all the rapture (joy) of heaven
when I’ve gone the last mile of the way.”
In a life that is filled with difficulties and hardships, all the while laced with seemingly unfair circumstances, we often wonder why we must go any further. Why shouldn’t we stand up and say enough is enough. Perhaps our answer comes in the 12th chapter of Hebrews, “…consider Him who has endured such hostility by sinners against Himself, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart.” Do you feel like the extra mile is too much for you? So how far are you willing to go? What is your breaking point? Will you truly go the extra mile? If you will honestly walk in the pathway of duty, and if you will truly work till the close of the day you can rest assured there are joys that await you when you’ve gone the last mile of the way!