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A Trip to the Beauty Salon…September 8th

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As a young boy, I remember mother giving me the monthly haircut.  With tears in my eyes she would take the old Oster hair clippers, a pair of scissors and set out to ‘lower my ears.’  Today, things are different.  A trip to get a hair cut might leave me short $15-20.  The ladies, however, are going to spend a bit more.  As a matter of fact, one nation-wide report claims the annual cost for a woman to ‘have her hair done’ could cost between $1,000 – $4,000 dollars.  Personally, that’s enough to make me want to cry…

But what does the cost of hair styling have to do with a Sunday morning sermon?  Can application be made for living a godly life in comparison with the beautification process? Perhaps we need to consider how much time and money we give to preparing ourselves for godly service as opposed to physical beauty.  OR maybe we should look inward rather than outward as we consider how beautiful someone is.

“…I will sing with the spirit and I will sing with the mind also.” I Corinthians 14:15

Sunday morning, September 8, 2013

The following songs are found in the hymnal, Songs of Faith & Praise.

“O Worship the King” 303Jesus with children
“Jesus is All the World to Me” 590

A short medley that is focused on worshiping the King and acknowledging how valuable Jesus is in my life.  Have you ever looked at the last phrase of this song?  Each verse ends with the statement, ‘He’s my Friend.’  We worship the King because we know He is my life, my joy and my all.  As a matter of fact, the Christian understands there is no better friend than Jesus.  He gives me strength in a difficult world, and in Christ  we live a beautiful life that has no end.

“How Beautiful” – 365

This contemporary song serves to prepare our minds for the Lord’s supper.  We think of the beautiful hands of Christ as He served men during His life on earth.  We remember those ‘beautiful feet’ that walked the dusty road to the cross.  We remember that He laid down His life and we sing, “How beautiful is the body of Christ…”

“O Lord, You’re Beautiful” – 275

This hymn we’ll sing between the bread and the fruit of the vine; “O Lord, You’re beautiful, Your face is all I seek, and when Your eyes are on this child, Your grace abounds to me.”  His beauty, more than anything in this world, is want we seek in our life…or is it?  What do you seek?

“In His Time” – 839

Another contemporary song, but this one never seemed to ‘take hold’ with the masses; but what a message!  Do we have the patience to wait for God to act ‘in His time’ or are we too accustomed to a culture that ‘want’s it now?’  Read the words from this song; “Lord, please show me every day as You’re teaching me Your way, that You do just want You say in Your time.”

“Let the Beauty of Jesus Be Seen in Me” – 722fine jewelry

The message of this song fits perfectly with our lesson and the accompanying scripture; I Peter 3:3, 4 “Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes.  Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.”  As we sing this song, take note of the third verse; “From the dawn of the morning to close of day, in example, in deeds and in all you say; lay your gifts at His feet, ever strive to keep sweet, let the beauty of Jesus be seen in you.”  Do you try to keep sweet throughout the day?  Am I laying my gifts at His feet (giving Him the credit for all I have) from the morning to the evening?  Can the world see the beauty of Jesus in me?

“Victory in Jesus” – 470

An upbeat song as we encourage each other toward Victory!  I’ve heard lots of stories and many are worthy hearing again and again.  We may even find some are valuable enough we’ll repeat them to others.  But what about the story of Jesus?  We sing that we’ve heard an old, old story; we’ve heard about His healing and we’ve heard about a mansion…but unless we repent and obey, we’ll never win or gain that victory in Jesus!

“Just As I Am” – 924

An ‘invitation song’ that has been around since the mid-1800’s, Charlotte Elliott touched the hearts of millions as they have responded to the invitation call.  Notice one of those ‘forgotten’ verses as we’ll be singing it on Sunday morning.  “Just as I am though tossed about, with many a conflict, many a doubt.  With fears within and foes without, O Lamb of God I come!  I come!”  Have our hearts grown so cold that we don’t fear being separated from God?  When will begin to understand the urgency of ‘waiting not’ to get rid of the dark blot that separates us from God?  Our cleansing comes only by the blood of the spotless Lamb of God.  Will you come?

“Let Me Live Close to Thee” – 831

As we consider our inward beauty we need to realize the closer we get to God and a godly life the more we’ll reflect Jesus.  Fitting that we sing a song of encouragement to work in the field and never ‘shirk’ our responsibilities for God.  Would that we remember the crown (hair styles?) and the renown (public recognition) matter little when it comes to letting Christ live in our life.

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The Opportunity of a Life Time…September 1st

Some things only come around ‘once in a life time.’  We look forward to those opportunities when we can ‘make our mark’ or share some level of expertise that will effect that one-time, life-changing event.  So what would you do when that time comes?  Do you know when that moment will be?

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Maybe we should ask, ‘can we prepare for that once in a life time event?’  How much training would it take to be ready?  Then again, you would need to know what to train for and how to prepare for that opportunity.  So consider this…what if someone asks you about Christ?  Could that be ‘the opportunity of a life time’ and would you be ready?

“…I will sing with the spirit and I will sing with the mind also.” I Corinthians 14:15

Sunday morning, September 1, 2013

The following songs are found in the hymnal, Songs of Faith & Praise.

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“I Sing Praises” – 97

A simple medley that combines a traditional hymn (1709) with a contemporary hymn (1989).  The key signature is the same, but the message is what makes this a powerful duo.  As the congregation sings, “Praise God from whom all blessings flow…”, we continue with the assurance that we will “…sing praises to Thy name, O, Lord…”  A beautiful combination of praise to our God.

 

“Tell Me the Story of Jesus” – 387

Many have sung this old spiritual song their whole life (written in 1880), and we have heard the singer tell about Christ on the Cross.  But not just the cross, we also tell about the grave were Christ was ‘buried’.  Yet without the next line our song would come to a sad conclusion.  But then, as the Son rises, we sing, “tell that He lives again…”  (Notice, we are singing the gospel; the death, burial and resurrection.)  The third verse holds an emotional plea to, “…stay, let me weep while you whisper, ‘Love paid the ransom for me…”  Think for a minute, when was the last time you cried when you considered Christ’s sacrifice?

“My Eyes are Dry” – 792

Listen to the message from this rather recent spiritual song/hymn; “My eyes are dry, my faith is old, my heart is hard, my prayers are cold…”  A fearful situation to be sure, but how true is it for those who come together every Sunday morning?  How many just go through the motions of being a Christian and never take inventory of their spiritual well-being.  Without Jesus…we are lost.  We all need to be ‘softened up’ with the spirit of His love and ‘washed anew’ in His blood.  So…when was the last time you cried when you thought about His love?


“A Charge to Keep I Have” – 58
“People Need the Lord” – 660

Another medley we’ll sing before our lesson that combines the traditional (1832) with the contemporary (1983).  In a dangerously lost world, it doesn’t take much to see that people need Jesus.  And we, as children of God, have a charge, a responsibility to tell the world about Him.  We may realize, but do we care that, “people need the Lord?”

“I Love to Tell the Story” – 659

We talk about all the things we love in life, but before our lesson we’ll sing about ‘loving to tell’ the story of Jesus Christ.  You have certainly sung the song, but will you do what you sing?  Each of these verses are filled with the reason we should not only sing about our Savior, but look forward to telling others about Him too.  You can never tell when that ‘opportunity of a life time’ will come to you.words of life

“Wonderful Words of Life” – 543

Let’s stand and sing this familiar melody from the late 1800′s.  Not a typical invitation song, but the message couldn’t be clearer, “…sinner, list to the loving call,”  “Wonderful words of Life; offer pardon and peace to all…”  How eager are you to ‘Sweetly echo the gospel call…?”  You never know when someone might be ready to listen to those wonderful words of life.

“Will You Not Tell It Today” – 628

As we leave the auditorium Sunday morning we’ll sing the question that has be asked for generations, “If the name of the Savior is precious to you…will you tell it (the good news) today?”  But notice the ending to each of the three verses; “…will you not tell of your gladness today?”, “…will you not, my brother, the story repeat (the story of salvation)?” “…will you not tell them (the lost) the cheer-bringing word?”  If you’re honest with yourself, every day you have the opportunity of a life-time.

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Whose Hand are You Holding?

Men Shaking HandsAs the congregation spilled out into the foyer, brothers and sisters in Christ were visiting as they slowly headed toward the exits.  There was no sense of urgency, but rather the sound of hope wafted through the air as adults and children alike laughed and visited with the early Sunday morning crowd.

This particular Sunday was no different than the hundreds that had taken place before and many more that were to come.  Each one played out on a weekly basis and sharing a similar feeling of family unity.  The busyness of the day wasn’t lost in a frenzied stampede to the doors.  People, young and old, lingered as they enjoyed the company of fellow Christians.  And to a small, 4 year old boy, this weekly forest of legs was nothing for me to shy away from.  We were a family, a comfortable environment centered around our Heavenly Father.  My parents had taught me this concrete principle from the day I could understand their words of instruction.  Following our Father’s example, we will always be a family of love.

On this particular Sunday morning as I dodged ‘tree trunks’ of corduroy and zipping passed the ladies swaying skirts, I was looking for a familiar hand.  One that perfectly held my small, child-like grip; and my granddad’s hand was unmistakable.  Years of hard labor had left his hands rugged and strong, yet also offered to me a stabilizing and comforting grasp.

In short order I saw his large, unmistakable hand at his side, and without hesitation I reached up and took a firm grip.  We walked for a while, taking in the excitement of the morning.  There was no hurry.  Slowly we made our way across the carpeted hallway.  As we walked I waited.  Surely my granddad would pick me up to save my steps.  Surely he would lift me up and provide that assurance a child needs.  But we walked on.  As we walked I lifted my gaze and peered into the face of a man who wasn’t my granddad.  All along I thought I knew who was holding my hand.  From the moment we grasped hands, I was sure I was holding the steadfast, safe hand of my granddad.  Though I was safe in the hands of this older Christian I wasn’t aware of whose hand I held.Emili...early years

My kids are growing up faster than I would have ever imagined.  Our oldest son, Logan, is prepared to start his 2nd year at Freed Hardeman University.  Before this month is over our second child, Emili ,will be starting her first year there.  Dillon, our youngest, will be an only child in the Bruce household this fall.  Last year as we prepared to leave Logan in Tennessee, I struggled with that transition.  My oldest was growing up and moving on.  Life was changing.  Now my little girl is doing the same.  She has grown up from that sweet, curly haired angel to a strong, mature young Christian lady.  Life keeps moving on…

Last year as our oldest moved out on his own, I came to focus on the message of the song by Warren Roberts, “God Bless You, Go with God”.  And Emili, that prayer is still my prayer for you as well.  But in addition, I want you encourage you to think about the words written by Ira Stanpill in the late 1950’s.  She penned the following:

1…I don’t know about tomorrow; I just live from day to day.
I don’t borrow from its sunshine for its skies may turn to gray.
I don’t worry o’er the future, for I know what Jesus said.
And today I’ll walk beside Him, for He knows what lies ahead.
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Chorus: Many things about tomorrow I don’t seem to understand
But I know who holds tomorrow and I know who holds my hand.

 

2…Every step is getting brighter as the golden stairs I climb;
Every burden’s getting lighter, every cloud is silver-lined.
There the sun is always shining, there no tear will dim the eye;
At the ending of the rainbow where the mountains touch the sky.

 

Chorus:

3…I don’t know about tomorrow; it may bring me poverty.
But the one who feeds the sparrow, is the one who stands by me.
And the path that is my portion may be through the flame or flood;
But His presence goes before me and I’m covered with His blood.

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Emili, please remember that as you walk through this life you will have lots of questions.  Questions like; ‘Why are they treating me like this?  How can he do that to me?  Why would she say something like that?’  There are times when people will disappoint you.  At the same time, there will be days when you feel like you’re on ‘Cloud 9.’  Nothing could go wrong and everything is going right.  Either way, during either day, consider who’s hand you are holding.  Sometimes the hand you hold will appear to be the right one.  It will look good, feel right and treat you just like you expect it to.  But there is one hand (besides mine) that you need to reach out to take hold of and never let go.  His hand will protect you and shield you in these tender moments when you’re learning to make it on your own.  You know who I’m talking about, and even though you don’t know what your tomorrow holds, rest assured in knowing that He holds your tomorrow.  As you hold your Savior’s hand remember this.  Your mother and I are not far away, because…we’re holding His hand too.

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The Green Peach Principle…August 11th

peach pieWith the summer sun beating down, a nice juicy Georgia peach would be a welcome refreshment.  Then again, a warm slice of peach pie would be just as good.  But why would the lesson on Sunday morning be focused on peaches…green peaches no less?

Sunday morning we’ll gather together and listen to a lesson presented by one of our own ministers, Robert Taylor.  But you might be wondering, what is the Green Peach Principle?  Maybe we should first ask…what is a green peach?  Join us as we explore God’s Word and consider,
‘The Green Peach Principle’.

“…I will sing with the spirit and I will sing with the mind also.”  I Corinthians 14:15

Sunday morning, August 11, 2013

The following songs are found in the hymnal, Songs of Faith & Praise.

“Praise the Lord” -74

Pick up your bible and turn to the book of Psalms…we can read and sing the psalms of praise!  For those who are thorough and follow things closely, you’ll find that in the Faith & Praise Hymnal we have four (4) songs that begin with the words, “Praise the Lord”.  This hymn, written in 1796 by J. Kempthrone, quotes the 148th Psalm.  The musical arrangement of the chorus is strong as the women sing “Hallelujah” and the men echo with “Amen”.  But for further emphasis, the parts continue with men singing “Hallelujah” and the women echoing “Amen”.  Could this be one of those hymns we sing around the throne?  It certainly has the message…angel of God

“Ten Thousand Angels” – 349

The story of Christ’s crucifixion is sung in this old spiritual song written and arranged in the late 1950’s.  As you sing the verses you’ll notice references to scripture in Christ’s words as He hung on the cross.  But is 10,000 angels a Biblical concept?  Consider what Christ said in Matthew 26:53, “…do you think I cannot appeal to My Father, and He will at once put at My disposal more than twelve (12) legions of angels?”  By historical accounting, a legion of Roman soldiers equated to 6,000 men.  Working the numbers you see Jesus was talking about more than 10,000 angels.  Maybe the song should sing, “He could have called 72,000 angels…”  But praise be to God, he didn’t!

“Ancient Words” – no book

This is one of our favorite contemporary songs here at Waterview.  Written in 2001, this song of encouragement is a rich reminder of the holy word of God, and the fact that it has been handed down from generation to generation.  The truth of the chorus must never be forgotten; “Ancient words, ever true, changing me and changing you…”  Your life will be changed by God’s word when you listen to the message of salvation.  But listening isn’t enough; verse two admonishes us with these words, “Holy words of our faith handed down to this age, came to us through sacrifice; O heed the faithful words of Christ…”  Listen to this song, but heed the faithful words.

“What is He Worth to Your Soul” – 321

A new song for many, but perhaps the message will support our lesson today.  As we sing during the passing of the collection plate, you’ll notice a very intentional message in this old spiritual song (read verse 2); “All that was His for the sinner He gave, pointed the path to the goal; sin would deprave (corrupt), but the Savior would save, what is He worth to your soul?”  A pretty simple question but how would you answer…what is Jesus worth to you?

“I Stand in Awe” – 96 & “Stand Up, Stand Up for Jesus” – 648

The first song in this medley before our lesson was beautifully written over 25 years ago.  It calls for us to recognize God’s position as ‘too marvelous for words.’  Is Jesus really ‘too beautiful beyond description?’ Standing as we sing, let us lift our voices in awe to our God!  But we’ll continue singing and standing as we reflect on a song more than 150 years old. Though we physically stand for these songs, we must be willing to stand up for Jesus in a spiritual way.  As a sin-stained world rejects Jesus, will you stand for Him?  Maybe you’ll need to ask yourself again, what is He worth to me?

“What Shall it Be” – 944

Have you heard the warning, ‘Don’t have anything to do with him.’  Why would that admonition be given if not to warn?  Interestingly enough that’s exactly what the world says about Jesus.  But as we sing this invitation song we’ll ask the question, “What will you do with Jesus?”  This is a question we can’t ignore and refuse to answer.  As the chorus states, ‘neutral you cannot be…’  Your answer?turning to god

“Redeemed” – 458

A strong, spiritual song with a beautiful echo after each measure.  The ladies start with “Sweet is the song” and the men repeat.  But what is the sweet song, and why do we sing about having great joy?  Almost 100 years ago James Rowe wrote this spiritual song and simply stated what the Christian believes…“I am redeemed!”  Unfortunately, far too many sing the song of redemption, but fail to process the last line of the chorus; “All to Him I now resign…”  Without this complete resignation (giving up) of our worldly pleasures we don’t fully understand how much Jesus is worth, to our souls.

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Do We Want More? (part 3)

handsWhether it’s Oliver Twist asking for more gruel in the orphanage, or a young boy asking about ‘mo’ -lasses for his hotcakes; we all are looking for more of something.  As we conclude this three part study asking if ‘we want more’, we will examine the last verse of Phillip Bliss’ old hymn, “More Holiness Give Me.”

 

As you may recall, this hymn contains the word more a surprising twenty-four (24) times in only three short verses.  Let’s conclude our study as we dive into verse three to examine Phillip Bliss’ inspiration of wanting more.

In verse three we sing about wanting (needing); more purity, more strength, more freedom and more longing.  A desire to be more fit, more useful, more blessed & holy and more like the Savior.  In the third part of this three part study we’ll consider one by one the ‘mores’ we’re seeking:

1) More purity give me…Purity is an interesting word.  To be pure, by definition, is to be ‘unmixed.’  When we strive to have more purity, we are asking (praying) for God to keep us clean.  Romans 3:23 reminds us that we “…all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God…”, we’re all dirty.  Its our decision is to seek salvation or remain in sin.  God’s children belong to Him, therefore we shouldn’t be mixed with the world.  Living in a sinful world, we need more purity.

2) More strength to o’er come (overcome)…When faced with an obstacle we’ll either walk away from it, or work to ‘over-come it.’  But what does that mean?  Bliss states it clearly, if we are to over come our struggles (obstacles), we need strength.  Strength that we currently do not have.  We might consider ourselves strong and capable to ‘overcome’, but that’s exactly where the devil wants us.  Comfortable and over confident.  To stand for Christ we need His strength if we are to ever overcome. earth stains

3) More freedom from earth-stains…Remember the need for purity?  When we’re ‘mixed up’ in the world we become stained, soiled, dirty.  To be free from stains we need a cleansing agent.  Tide* might get the stain out of our clothes, but only Christ can remove ‘earth-stains’.  Do you want more freedom?

4) More longings for home.  Perhaps we have to be away from home for a while to realize how much we long for home.  But then again you have to ask yourself…where is home?  You’ve heard the saying, “Home is where is your heart is.”  OK, then where is your heart?  If our heart belongs to God, then heaven is our home.  Are you longing to go home or have you given your heart to someone else?square peg...round hole

5) More fit for His kingdom.  Take a square peg and try to ‘fit’ it into a round hole; you know it doesn’t belong there.  It doesn’t fit.  To make that square peg do it’s job, you’ll need to shave off the corners.  Round the peg off and smooth it to the same size as the hole.  Then it will fit and be ready to use…you could say it will be ‘more fit’ than it was previously.

6) More useful…The idea of being useful and fit go hand in hand.  Once the corners of the peg are carved off, smoothed down and shaped to fill the hole, it will be useful.  But how can it be ‘more’ useful?  We all have a responsibility in some form or fashion.  Consider how well do you do your job?  We work for a reason, to get the job done.  We want to be useful in our daily task.  But you need to ask yourself; “In God’s kingdom, am I being as ‘useful’ as I could be?”

7) More blessed and holy…8) More, Savior, like Thee.  These last two are joined together for a reason.  As we strive to be more like Christ in our life, we will be focused on living a holy life.  In turn, we’ll be more blessed and ultimately we’ll be more like our Savior.  Make no mistake, this song is a prayer.  And in our prayers we ask God to give us good health, peace of mind, and patience.  But be honest, do you want to be more holy and more like Jesus?  That’s a prayer we should all be praying

This 140 year old hymn serves as a full, 24-point sermon on seeking more, but not what the world seeks.  The world is focused on self, and it wrestles for more status and position.  The child of God is focused on heaven and their desires more Christ centered.  We have sung about being more godly…now we need to live ‘more, Savior, like Thee!

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A Theology Written in Blood…August 4th

drop of bloodChristian’s understand and believe that faith is based on an eternal promise, an everlasting covenant.  And as we consider a covenant, it’s logical to conclude that it should be confirmed in writing.  But one written, confirmed, with blood?  Obviously a holy promise, a divine theology, that is written in blood must be of the highest importance.  Since blood is essential to life, it’s no surprise that this covenant is indispensable for our eternal survival as well.  Simply stated, without blood…we die!

Remember Romans 3; “…all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. God presented Christ as a sacrifice of atonement, through the shedding of his blood – to be received by faith.” Thanks be to God for this theology, written in blood!

“…I will sing with the spirit and I will sing with the mind also.” I Corinthians 14:15

Sunday morning, August 4, 2013

The following songs are found in the hymnal, Songs of Faith & Praise.

“Nothing But the Blood” -902baptism2

‘What can wash away my sins?’  A question many have sung for years, and we know the answer, ‘…nothing, but the blood of Jesus.’  When we sing the third verse take note of the second line in the verse, ‘naught of good that I have done…’  Translated; of all the good things I have done in this life, ZERO of that can atone for my sin.  Nothing can bring us to God except the blood of Jesus.

“There is Power in the Blood” – 903

As part of this short medley we’ll continue our thought about the blood of Jesus and His saving power.  We continue with another question.  Not what can wash away my sin, but a question of do you want your sins to be washed away?  ‘Would you be free from the burden of sin?’  Is so, the blood of Jesus can cleanse you.

“In Christ Alone” – no book

A song of admonition that we’ll sing as we prepare our minds to partake of the Lord’s supper.  A memorial of His death, burial and resurrection.  As verse one consist of recognizing our Cornerstone, solid ground and Comforter, verse two takes us from His birth to His crucifixion.  Those who know this song cherish the third verse.  As we begin singing softly of His burial, our voices ‘burst forth’ as we sing of His resurrection.  The final verse gives us assurance in Christ as we sing, ‘No power of hell, no scheme of man, can ever pluck me from His hand…’  This video features one man’s voice, harmonizing together to the glory of God.

“Nearer Still Nearer” – 478

Following the Lord’s supper we’ll sing this hymn expressing a strong desire to stay ‘close to (His) Thy heart…’  Listen to the words you’re singing and you’ll notice that the nearer we draw to God, the further we draw away from sin and its folly (foolishness).  Would that we willingly resign, give up, all of life’s pleasures, pomp and pride so that we draw nearer…still nearer to our God.

“There is a Redeemer” – 287

We sing the affirmation of this contemporary hymn/spiritual song as we proclaim, “There is a Redeemer, Jesus, God’s own Son…” Melody Green wrote, and we sing, a song of thanks to God.  “Thank You, O my Father, for giving us Your Son and leaving with us the gift of Your Holy Spirit…until (the work) our work on earth is done.”  Maybe we should be asking ourselves, ‘How am I doing with my work?’

“There’s a Royal Banner” – 627

Before we listen to the lesson Robert has prepared for us, we’ll sing about our mission as Christians.  The purpose of this ‘song before the lesson’ is found in the second verse.  ‘Over land and sea, wherever man may dwell, make the glorious tidings known; of the CRIMSON BANNER now the story tell, while the Lord shall claim His own…’  In Exodus 17, after the Amalekites are defeated, we read, “Moses built an altar and called it The Lord is my Banner…” The banner is a symbol from the battlefield.  As soldier’s of Christ we too have a symbolic banner; one that’s crimson, blood red.  Do you fly this banner in your life?

“There’s a Fountain Free” – 909

Perhaps one of my favorite invitation songs has the chorus ask the question, “Will you come to the fountain fountainfree?”  When we consider the words of Jeremiah the prophet we better understand the fountain; “O Lord, the hope of Israel, All who forsake You will be put to shame. Those who turn away on earth will be written down, Because they have forsaken the fountain of living water, even the Lord.” (Jeremiah 17:13)  It’s interesting to me that 3 times the author writes ‘hasten’ (come quickly) to the fountain.  Yet sadly, in this ‘fast-paced world’, the ‘living stream’ is the one place many are slow to approach.

“There is a Habitation” – 860

Leaving this morning we’ll encourage each other with these simple words; ‘…I long to see heaven!’  How ready are you for the Lord’s return?  Is the abode you seek eternal?  The heavenly city we seek has a foundation that’s firm and eternal.  One we can anticipate because of the atonement we have through the blood of Christ.

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Here’s to My Best Friend…A Sister’s Toast

John & Karissa's weddingThis past week my family and I spent the week on the west coast.  Our niece, Karissa, and her fiance John, were married in Visalia, California on Saturday, July 20th…Congratulations!  We enjoyed the nostalgic stops along Route 66 (from Amarillo, TX to Barstow, CA) as well as the majesty of the Grand Canyon.  Our ten day trip concluded as we stopped at the Palo Duro Canyon to enjoy T*E*X*A*S.  An excellent, cross-country family trip we enjoyed together across this great nation.  But my personal highlight was the reason for the trip… John & Karissa’s wedding day.

Our oldest son was honored to serve as one of John’s groomsmen, and our youngest was an usher.  And though those two were excited to share in this day with their cousin, during the reception Karissa’s only sister summed up the day.  After 22 years, Tiffany offered a toast to her ‘best friend’ and life-long companion.  This ‘speech’ is a great example of how you honor your family & friend.  Congratulations Karissa and thank you, Tiffany!

“My name is Tiffini, and I’m Karissa’s older, and only sister. About a year ago I realized I would be making this speech and when John proposed to Karissa I knew what I had to do. I told her I better start thinking about which happy and touching moments to reflect on while I’m up here. Without a pause she turned to me and said, “Tiffini, I’m going to be emotional and will probably be crying on and off during the day, so during your few minutes of giving a speech, you better make me laugh.” No pressure, right?

 Tiffany and Karissa

So I started to think what would make you laugh. Most of our jokes are inside jokes, so no one here would get it when I quote a random line from a movie or song. They wouldn’t get it if I talked about something funny we made up after sitting in a car together for three or more days straight during one of our many family vacations, or something hilarious we made up when making fun of one of our late night movies. You might laugh and some people might find it funny if I relayed one of our many silly and impromptu adventures, like the time I pretended to rob you at the bank and it just so happened that your co-worker saw the whole incident and when you went in to work the next day she asked if you were okay. But stories like that take too long.

And then I finally realized what I’d do. I’d quote you. For those who don’t know, Karissa wrote a special card to each of her bridesmaids and gave them to us a couple of days ago. When I opened mine it said, “We have way too many jokes for me to write down…” And I got to thinking, we have 22 years of jokes and memories that I can’t fit into a less than five minute speech. And the reason for this is even better explained in Karissa’s last line in the card she gave me. She wrote, “I love you a ton, not because we’re sisters, but we’re also best friends.”

This isn’t the first time I’ve heard this. I’ve heard a lot of people tell us over the years that we act more like friends than sisters and that we get along very well for being siblings. I will always remember the first time we were given the title of best friend-sisters. I’ve always considered Karissa the best friend I’ve ever had. So of course her card touched me and I wanted to say thank you to my sister for the loving words she wrote, but before I could say this she quietly said to me, “I wrote all of those bridesmaids cards really late at night and yours was the last one. I have no idea what I wrote to you.”

That’s okay. It’s her wedding day, so I’ll forgive her for that one. But hopefully I got you to laugh a little bit.

I haven’t left you out John.  I’ve been hearing about John a lot from my sister the last few years, but it hasn’t been until this last month or so that I’ve really gotten to know him. This last memory is for you.

If you don’t already know, my family loves Disney, especially Disneyland.  (I told you two I’d fit Disneyland into this). If we ever go on vacation, it’s to Disneyland, dubbed “THE HAPPIEST PLACE ON EARTH!” I’ve noticed over the Disneylandpast 22 years that Karissa tends to hold in her excitement about things.  But when we are in the car, on the way to Disneyland, Karissa will be singing every verse of ‘It’s a Small World’ in each language; (which I still can’t figure out how she learned to do that).  I guess she just can’t help it.  She’ll start to sway back and forth, fidget in her seat, and almost bounce around when we see that sign that says Disneyland. She can’t contain herself. It’s rare to see her get that excited about something.

So I found it interesting last summer when we took a family trip to Arkansas to visit John and his family, and we had just arrived to John’s hometown, and we were at the hotel room (of course Karissa and I always had to share a room or a bed when traveling… the stories I could tell you). I was trying to watch TV and I see Karissa pacing back and forth next to the door, bouncing up and down, kinda holding her breath like she’s waiting for something. Up until this point the only thing that’s ever made her this crazy is Disneyland, so I ask her what she’s doing. And she says, “I haven’t seen him since our school year ended. John’s almost here.”

It was when she said this that I realized Disneyland was no longer the happiest place on earth for Karissa. The happiest place on earth for her is toasting the bride and groomwherever John is. So John, if you’re doing better than Disneyland, I think you’re doing pretty alright.

So here’s to John and Karissa:

“May your marriage be a long, loving, and happy one. You both will forever be in my heart and I love you both. And may your home always be blessed and open for me to crash in for random movie nights.”

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Sermons from an Empty Pew…July 28th

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You might be familiar with the adage, “Actions speak louder than words.”  A smile might tell you someone is happy while a frown expresses disappointment or frustration.  But honestly, what sermon could we possible hear from an empty seat?  Is anything to be learned when someone is missing from church services.  Is it that big of a deal when someone is ‘MIA’ from the assembly?

Each Sunday morning God’s people come together to worship, edify, study and commemorate Christ’s sacrifice on Calvary.  But what are the consequences when a Christian doesn’t come? What is the lesson we can learn from ‘an empty pew?’

“…I will sing with the spirit and I will sing with the mind also.” I Corinthians 14:15

Sunday morning, July 28, 2013

The following songs are found in the hymnal, Songs of Faith & Praise.

“O Worship the King” -144

A great song of praise and that many are familiar with.  But with familiarity comes an opportunity for laziness.sun in the clouds  We know some songs so well we sing them without given them much thought, a dangerous maneuver.  For example; we sing the third verse with energy, “O worship the King, all glorious above, And gratefully  sing His wonderful love;  (no problem so far, we understand what we’re saying) Our Shield and Defender, the Ancient of Days, pavilion-ed in splendor and girded with praise.”  When you sing this song recognize that as God is covered with brilliancy (magnificence), He is also surrounded (enthroned) with praise!”

“I’m Not Ashamed to Own My Lord” – 609

Are there things you are ashamed of?  Things you’d rather not have ‘in the open?’  Is your faith in Jesus one of those things?  Without hesitation we would say “NO”, but how many of your peers on the job or in your circle of influence know how important Jesus is to you?  Some might say they are not ashamed of Christ, but the question comes in the next line…will you defend His cause?

“Til My Faith Becomes Sight” – 836

“Tho they slay me, tho I fall; in darkness You are light, Jesus.  I will keep my eyes on You till my faith becomes sight.”   Dennis Jernigan writes this song and some may wonder, who would slay me; I know there’s times I fall, but how can I keep my eyes on Jesus when it’s dark?  Remember the battle and keep in mind, our falling and the darkness of this world is not physical, but spiritual.  Keep your eyes on Christ as your faith is strengthened in Him.

“Take Time to Be Holy” – 731

The message of this song is simple, but extremely thorough.  Notice what happens when we take the time to be holy.  We will speak often with our Lord.  We will feed on His word (read the Bible).  We’ll make friends of God’s children, the family of God, and we’ll help those who are weak.  Then above everything else (in all that we do), we will seek His blessings.  And to think, that’s just the first verse!Thanksgiving

“We Gather Together” – no book

Some might remember this old hymn (spiritual song) as one we sang in November, around Thanksgiving time.  It does lean toward being thankful for all God has given us, but my intention is for us to consider this first line; “We gather together to ask the Lord’s blessing…”  As a congregation of God’s people we need to be ready, willing and eager to gather together.

“How Firm a Foundation” – 457

Ask any engineer and you’ll hear that your structure is only a solid as the foundation it’s built upon.  In Christ we have a firm foundation, one that won’t crack, shift or crumble throughout the years.  A foundation with a guarantee, a seal as Paul says when writing to Timothy, “…the firm foundation of God stands, having this seal, ‘The Lord knows those who are His,’ and “Everyone who names the name of the Lord is to abstain from wickedness.’ “  So, how is your foundation?  Or maybe you should ask, how’s your seal? 

“Great Are You, Lord” – no book

Before our lesson this morning we’ll praise God with this hymn of praise.  ‘Holy Lord, most holy Lord! You alone are worth of our praise!’  He is great and He is worthy.  Lift up your voice and give God the praise.  This morning, tomorrow morning, every morning we should be ready to proclaim, “GREAT ARE YOU LORD!”

“I Am Resolved” – 948

Every January 1st you find people making their ‘new year’s resolutions.’  A time when you say you fix your mind toward accomplishing your goals.  A time when you promise yourself personal achievement.  A new year, a new start, a new goal.  But this invitation song is more than just a first of the year promise.  As we sing, we sing to confirm a promise.  We are resolved no longer to linger, to go to the Savior, to follow the Savior, and ultimately, to enter the kingdom.  In your resolution do you hasten to Him or just take your time?

“Will Jesus Find Us Watching” – no book

When Jesus comes back to receive His own where will you be?  What will you be doing?  This spiritual song is one I remember from my child-hood.  Standing in the auditorium at 1st Street church of Christ in Dumas, Texas I remember standing beside my brother and singing the chorus of this song, “O can we say we are ready, brother?  Ready for the souls bright home?  Say, will He find you and me still watching, waiting, waiting when the Lord shall come?”  So…how about it; are you ready, are you watching?

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The Danger of Drifting…July 21st

anchorWithout an anchor, a boat will drift and the stability of it’s location is lost.  We drop anchor to secure us and keep us from drifting away.  Scripture is rich in comparing our souls to a vessel and our anchor to Christ.  The Hebrew writer explains, ‘This hope we have as an anchor of the soul, a hope both sure and steadfast and one which enters within the veil…’ (6:19)

But what’s the ‘big deal’ with drifting and why should we be concerned about losing our position?  Is there peril in falling away?  Consider how helpless you feel when you sink beneath the waves, not able to touch bottom and realizing all hope is being covered in breathlessness.  That happens the minute we start to drift.

“…I will sing with the spirit and I will sing with the mind also.” I Corinthians 14:15

Sunday morning, July 21, 2013

The following songs are found in the hymnal, Songs of Faith & Praise.

“Oh, Praise the Lord” 282

From the pen of the Psalmist, this ‘hymn’ is a direct praise to our God (logically, it could call it a psalm as well).  Can you see the passion in this song of praise!  “O praise the Lord, all ye nations; praise Him all ye people, for His merciful kindness is great toward us; and the truth of the Lord endureth forever…praise ye the Lord!”

“Marvelous Things” – 209

A contemporary, spiritual song with a strong, 4-part harmony.  The soprano’s open with eight, simple words; ‘He has done marvelous things.  Praise the Lord.’  Each part joins in succession (alto, tenor, bass) with the same message; ‘marvelous things…’  Considering what God has done it makes sense we’d conclude with the acclamation,  ‘Praise the Lord!’

“Christ We Do All Adore Thee” – 186

As we prepare our minds for the Lord’s supper, we’ll sing this hymn as we honor and praise our God.  “Christ, we do all adore Thee, and we do praise Thee forever…”  Some might wonder how we could sing this song in preparing our minds for this memorial supper, but notice the second line, “…for on the holy cross hast Thou the world from sin redeemed…”  How much more do we need to remind ourselves of His sacrifice?  Christ, we DO all adore Thee!

 

“Sun of My Soul” – 806
“Jesus, Lover of My Soul” – 807
“Abide with Me” – 808

This medley is prearranged in the hymnal Faith & Praise, edited by Alton Howard.  Consider the message; in a lost (drifting) and dark world, where do you go to find light and stability?  In this physical world we have a sun shining in our sky, but in the spiritual realm, what is our source illumination?  The ‘sun for our soul’ is our Savior!  And our Savior, as the storms of life threaten and the waters roll, He cares for us and loves us.  So it only makes sense that we would cry out, “Abide with me, fast falls the eventide…(the end of life)”  The message for the Christian is clear, without our God we have no hope.  No comfort in this earth or even in earthly friends.  Jesus Christ is our help when we are helpless, He is the ‘lover’ of our souls and He shines as the sun of our souls!

“My Hope is Built on Nothing Less” – 538standing on the rock

Do you have an opinion, what do you think?  Where do you stand?  Are you solid about your position or are you able to be swayed?  Questions like these are used to establish one’s belief.  Where is your ‘stand’ when it comes to the hope that is within you? (I Peter 3:15)  As for me, my hope is built on the blood of Jesus Christ… and on nothing less! On Christ, the solid Rock I stand!  How about you?

“We Have an Anchor” – 467

Before the lesson this morning the congregation will sing to one another with this old, post-Civil War, spiritual song from Priscilla Owens (1874).  Take note of the question and answer we sing to one another in psalms, hymns and spiritual songs; Will your anchor hold in the storms of life?  As the winds begin to howl and the waves behind to roll we ask the question, will your anchor drift or firm remain?  Singing to one another we answer from scripture (Hebrews 6:19), “We have an anchor that keeps the soul steadfast and sure while the billows roll, fastened to the Rock (Jesus Christ) which cannot move, grounded firm and deep in the Savior’s love.”

“Behold a Stranger at the Door” – 919

Our invitation song calls our attention to Jesus and how we treat Him.  Jesus came to ‘seek and save that which was lost’ Luke 19:10, but how do we treat Him as He comes to the door of our heart?  He gently knocks, and for some, this isn’t the first time.  For many He still waits to enter into the heart, but how is He treated?  Received or rejected?  Accepted or ignored?  Joseph Grigg’s wrote, “…you treat no other friend so ill.”  Receive your friends with open arms, but consider how you’ll treat the Son of God on a daily basis.gift of grace

“Heaven Came Down” – 517

As this morning’s worship service comes to a close we’ll sing this spiritual song about living a Christian life.  A beautiful message but notice the second verse; “Born of the Spirit with life from above into God’s family divine. Justified fully through Calvary’s love, O what a standing is mine! (Where DO you stand?) And the transaction so quickly was made, when as a sinner I came.  Took of the offer of grace He did proffer, He saved me!  O praise His dear name…”  To proffer is to give a gift expecting an answer, either accept it or not.  He has given us hope for eternal life.  What will you do with is offer?  Just keep in mind, when we accept God’s gift of love, we have an anchor to keep our soul from drifting.

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Shaky Hands

Donna Holloway has penned a few articles for this website.  Late last year (December, 2012) she shared this experience with me as she joined her aging parents for Sunday worship.  The names of the men serving are her relatives and immediate family members.  Thanks for the reminder of how fragile life can be.

This past Sunday afternoon I was touched by several things I observed while attending the worship service my Dad holds at Sand Plum Assisted Living Center in Bixby, Oklahoma.  The services are held in a small room off to the side of the common living area.  My dad reserves this room from 4:00 – 5:00 on Sunday old hands and bibleafternoons so the residents can attend worship services.  Generally one of the men from the Bixby congregation comes to help him oversee the service; but this past Sunday he called on Richard for the lesson, Phillip to lead the singing, Paul & Brent to coordinate Lord’s Supper and then my Dad led a prayer. 

First off, Mom & Dad set up the room and prepared the bread and the fruit of the vine into the trays.  Mom seemed to remember what to do and enjoyed helping Dad set up.  She even went to get me a cup of water on her own, and didn’t seem confused about where to go.  Several residents, mostly ladies along with one tall gentleman came for the service.  Some left their walkers in the hall; others needed them to get to their seat or to sit upon.  The lady that sat by me was pleasant and participated in every way; she turned to the scripture readings, sang from her hymnal and partook of the Lord’s Supper.  Although Dad and Mom still have a car and go to worship in Bixby, many of these folks aren’t able to get out. 

As I watched and participated in this afternoon service, I was particular fascinated as these older folks took the Lord’s Supper.  Their devotion to this memorial touched me deeply.  With confident, yet shaky hands, they reached in with some difficulty to pick up a small piece of the bread.  As the men began to serve the juice Dad quietly told them to please hand each one a cup, and so they did.  With outstretched hands, still shaking, each resident was able to drink from their cup and then place it back into the tray.  I guess the shaking hands are what made me realize how important this worship is to these aging Christians.  It means a great deal to them as I imagine it will to me one day when I’m in a similar situation.

retirement residentsI’m not surprised my Dad has taken this on and I’m so proud he’s doing it.  He has always been one to quietly notice what needs to be done and doesn’t shy away from serving. 

It was good to see Mom helping him set up and feeling confident in what she was doing.  Being in the early stages of dementia, she stays confused most any other time.

At the end of the service, one 98 year old lady, quickly left saying the service ran a little long this week.  Others were friendly to visit and showed their thankfulness to the men who led the service. 

Until we had participated with the singing at Dayspring Assisted Living Center in Plano, Texas I had very little experience around older people.  I am thankful for the opportunity Waterview church of Christ provided during those few precious years for us to sing for the residents at Dayspring.  It was good for me to learn how to be around the sweet, aging folks.

Perhaps you’ve been encouraged and have enjoyed reading about my experience in Bixby.  Due to my Dad’s job of moving every few years and living so much of my childhood overseas, I had only a few years to spend time with grandparents, and most of those visits were short in time.  Perhaps you’d say I have been a ‘late’ learner about the blessing of older people.  So if you have a love the older, aging folks, I encourage you to demonstrate your love and compassion to them by giving of your most cherished possession…your time.  Just remember…each day God gives us on this earth we ourselves are growing closer to having ‘shaky hands!’

Richard Donna HollowayThis world is not my home, but while I’m here it makes sense to be a support and encouragement to God’s family.  Thanks Donna for your encouragement.