What Will You Will?…Jan 12th

As a young boy I was blessed with a grandmother who showered me with gifts, money and meals. Two hundred pounds later I can say it was much more than I ever needed or deserved. She didn’t do it out of compulsion or guilt, she gave because she wanted to. She ‘willed’ that I would be comfortable with earthly gifts, but she (and my parents) knew life was more than things.

Parents and grandparents give to their children much more than meets the eye. But all too often we focus on the tangible, the here and now. What did you get me for Christmas? How long until I get to trade in for a new phone? How much allowance will I get this year? Is this the extent of what we will leave for our children? Is our ‘will’ of monetary value only, or is there something more we’ll give them. Christ left for us an inheritance far more valuable then silver or gold. Join us Sunday morning when we’ll hear a stirring lesson about…our wills.

“…I will sing with the spirit and I will sing with the mind also.” I Corinthians 14:15

Sunday morning, January 12, 2014

The following songs are found in the hymnal, Songs of Faith & Praise.

“Higher Ground” no book

A great traditional hymn with a newer twist. We’ve sung this great song for years, but in recent years we’ve learned a new version (listen to it below). But as always, don’t miss the message. We have trials in this life that get us down and depress our spirits. This morning we’ll open this time of worship with a hymn of encouragement. “I’m pressing on the upward way, new heights I’m gaining every day; still praying as I onward bound, ‘Lord plant my feet on higher ground…”

“Breathe on Me, Breath of God” – 418

This hymn has a contemporary feel, but it was penned more than 130 years ago. A call for God to ‘breathe’ upon His children with a blessing! Notice the second verse, “Breathe on me, breath of God, until my heart is pure, until my will is one with Thine, to do and to endure.”

“The Old Rugged Cross” – 313

We’ll take this old spiritual song and break it up into three parts. Verse one will be sung before the bread, verse two before the fruit of the vine and the third verse after the cup. You’ll want to remember this second verse, “O that old rugged cross, so despised by the world, has a wondrous attraction for me; For the dear Lamb of God left His glory above to bear it to dark Calvary…’ How much do you cherish the cross of Christ? Where would we be without it?

“God Give Us Christian Homes” – 843

As we think about new resolutions for the year how many of us will make a priority of making our “…homes where the Bible is loved and taught?” Let this song be a reminder that everyone has a responsibility in a Christian home. Fathers are to be true and strong, mothers strive to show others God’s way is best and children are led. Are our children willing to be led? We need to make sure that in our homes ‘the Master’s will is sought.’ Parents, we need to be sure we prepare to leave a heavenly legacy for our families.

“My Hope is Built on Nothing Less” – 538

Where is your hope? In what do you trust? David wrote in Psalm 20:7, “Some trust in chariots and some in horses, but we trust in the name of the Lord our God.” This song before our lesson is a great reminder of what is most important. What should we pass on to our children? Nothing less than a hope that is built on Jesus’ blood. We shouldn’t trust in the ‘sweetest frame’ (our physical well-being), but in the name above all other names…Jesus!

“My Jesus As Thou Wilt” – 698

Words that date back 310 years (1704) but resonate with Christ’s own words in the garden, “Not My will but Thine.” Considering what we ‘will’, it only makes sense that this song serve as our invitation song. “O may Thy will be mine.”

“A Wonderful Savior” – 503

What a song of rejoicing as we sing to encourage each other that God is in control. He takes care of us, comforts us and hides us. Interesting to think that God hides us in His hand, but considering the trials of this world we do fine peace in knowing that God covers His people. This old spiritual song reflects Exodus 33:22 as God spoke to Moses. “and it will come about, while My glory is passing by, that I will put you in the cleft of the rock and cover you with My hand…” Indeed, a wonderful Savior is Jesus my Lord.

1, December 29, 20131, December 30, 2013

I Believe, I Believe

Bending down to pick up the bell that had fallen from the reigns of the sleigh, the young boy holds it to his ear and gently shakes it. No sound can be heard, the bell is silent, just a faint whisper of doubt. But the boy knows better, others have heard it clearly ringing and the evidence is before him. This bell should be ringing but he hears nothing…why? Carefully he holds the bell in his hands and, closing his eyes, he whispers, “I believe, I believe, I believe!” Slowly he again, brings the bell to his ear and gently shakes it. A crisp, clear tone resonates from the bell. It rings! An old, white-bearded man approaches the boy and asks, “What was that you said?” The answer is as natural as the sound that rings from the bell, “I believe!”

If you have seen The Polar Express you’ll remember this scene from the popular Christmas movie. Standing between acceptance and rejection a young boy is magically transported to the North Pole where he meets a train conductor, several new friends and the man dressed in red. But shortly before midnight on Christmas Eve our ‘main character’ still hasn’t decided if he truly believes there is a Santa Claus. Not until he faces the fact he’ll never hear the Christmas bells until he believes…until he believes there is a Santa Claus.

So the question comes to you, do you believe? A question asked not in regard to Santa, but in regard to the Christ. Have you, will you, publicly proclaim that you believe Jesus is the Son of God? That’s important, but don’t stop at believing. The scriptures tell us ‘anyone’ can believe. In James 2:19, regarding belief in God and Jesus as one, James states, “You do well; the demons also believe, and shudder.” The demons aren’t shaking a bell, they know who God is. The intimate foes of Jesus Christ believe He is Who He says He is. But they don’t accept Him nor will they ever follow Him. I can say, “I believe, I believe, I believe!”, but what does my life say? How do I live each day?

As this year ends and a new one begins many of us will write down our New Year’s Resolutions. Our resolve to do some things better. We’ll start acting differently, we’ll begin rearranging our priorities. If you have never come to “believe” who Christ is, and what He has done for you, God’s word will give you direction. But if you are already following God’s word, and have obeyed His calling, take a good long look at your life. Remember, it takes more than just saying “I believe!”

1, December 9, 20131, December 11, 2013

Breath of Heaven

God’s word is complete and gives us all we need for salvation in Christ Jesus. We know the scripture is ‘God breathed’ and we are secure in following His word. Still there are some things within its pages that we don’t know. Questions like, what was Jesus like as a child? And, whatever happened to Joseph (Jesus’ earthly father)? Or, how did Mary cope with the news of her first pregnancy? We only know what we read in the scripture, but many have tried to fill in the blanks to these questions.

In 1993 Ken Young penned the words to a song we have sung hundreds of times before the Lord’s Supper, Thomas’ Song. Written from the view point of the apostle Thomas (doubting Thomas) we get a man’s interpretation as to what Thomas may have been feeling after learning of Christ’s resurrection. John 20:25-28 gives us the exact account, but we often like to imagine what Thomas might have said, “Jesus, You were all to me, why did You die on Calvary? O Lamb of God I fail to see how this could be part of the plan. If I could only hold your hand…”

In similar fashion, Amy Grant and Chris Eaton teamed up produce a song mirroring the possible thoughts and feelings of Mary, the mother of Jesus. How did she feel carrying the Son of God? Was she confused and scared, or was she excited and confident? We only know what we read in the scriptures (Luke 1:26-38). There we read, “Mary was greatly troubled…” (vs. 29) and her questioning, “How will this be…?” (vs. 34) as well as her humble acknowledgment, “I am the Lord’s servant…”. And yet, as we continue in this passage, we read she had more to say. She said,“My soul glorifies the Lord and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior, for He has been mindful of the humble state of His servant. From now on all generations will call me blessed, for the Mighty One has done great things for me – holy is His name.” (vs. 46-49)

Was she uncertain? Perhaps. Was she grateful? Certainly. But would that we all draw some encouragement as Mary might well have silently prayed that God would be with her. This ‘Christmas hymn’ recognizes that God’s breath gives life (Genesis 1) and as the resurrected Messiah ‘breathed on His disciples’ (John 20:22), so Mary may have longed for God to give her the breath of heaven.

Enjoy this acapella version of a relatively new, popular Christmas song. Remember to check back later this month as we explore more ‘seasonal’ favorites. This “Christmas Song of the Day”…Mary’s Song (Breath of Heaven).

I have traveled many moonless nights Cold and weary with a babe inside
And I wonder what I’ve done Holy Father you have come
And chosen me now To carry your son

I am waiting in a silent prayer I am frightened by the load I bear
In a world as cold as stone Must I walk this path alone

Be with me now Be with me now[Chorus:]
Breath of heaven Hold me together
Be forever near me Breath of heaven
Breath of heaven Lighten my darkness
Pour over me your holiness For you are holy Breath of heaven Do you wonder as you watch my face If a wiser one should have had my place
But I offer all I am For the mercy of your plan
Help me be strong Help me be Help me

[Chorus:]
Breath of heaven Hold me together
Be forever near me Breath of heaven
Breath of heaven Lighten my darkness
Pour over me your holiness For you are holy Breath of heaven

1, November 25, 2013

Sound the Battle Cry

Wars are fought and won by soldiers! We’ve honored our veterans this month and each day we should express our ‘thanks’ for their sacrifice. But we must never forget that soldiers fight for a cause. They strap on their gear (armor) and charge into the fray for a common cause, to defeat the foe. And though our methods of battle are much more ‘sophisticated’ today, we still are engaged in wars and rumors of wars (Matthew 24:6).

Since the day God delivered His people from the Egyptians (Exodus 14), armies have sung songs to rally the troops and encourage the victor. Songs like Moses and the sons of Israel sang in Exodus 15; “I will sing to the Lord, for He is highly exalted; the horse and rider He has hurled into the sea…” Following the example from those men of old, we have continued to sing in triumph on the battle field.

The Civil War holds some strong examples of battle songs as we recall some familiar tunes from the 1860’s; “When Johnny Comes Marching Home”, “Dixie Land” and “Rally Round the Flag Boys”. Like the Civil War, both World Wars and other battles fought over the years, songs of encouragement were sung to inspire the troops.

In the battle for right vs. wrong, God’s children find themselves fighting as soldier’s of Christ (2 Timothy 2:3). We recognize this and even teach the idea to our children at the youngest ages. Who hasn’t attended a Vacation Bible School and not sung, “I’m in the Lord’s Army”? But do the ‘battle songs’ end with children? Obviously not when we consider; “Soldier’s of Christ, Arise” or “The Battle Belongs to the Lord” or “Victory in Jesus”. Let’s look at one particular battle song that the Christian has sung since the days of the Civil War. A song by William F. Sherwin entitled “Sound the Battle Cry”. Notice the call for soldiers to be aware of the impending battle (the foe is nigh) and the call from Ephesians 6 to ‘put on the armor of God’. The second verse encourages the soldier to realize and see the importance of never quitting (marching on in the strength of God). And the final verse is a plea to the ‘Captain’ to continue with us, support us and reward us at the close of the war.

With the sound of distant cannons echoing in his mind, Sherwin pens the chorus as if singing the Civil War tune, ‘rally around the flag boys’; “Rouse then soldier’s (of the cross), rally round the banner…” , but who is the banner? Notice Isaiah 11, “In that day the Root of Jesse (David’s father) will stand as a banner for the peoples; the nations will rally to Him, and His resting place will be glorious.” Who is the “Root of Jesse”? Look to John as he wrote in Revelation 5, “…behold the Root of David (son of Jesse)…a Lamb, standing, as if slain…”. When we sing about ‘the banner’, we’re singing about the Christ. When we “rally ’round the banner,” we are rallying around our Savior.

Sound the battle cry! See, the foe is nigh;
Raise the standard high for the Lord;
Gird your armor on, stand firm every one;
Rest your cause upon His holy Word.

Strong to meet the foe, marching on we go,

While our cause we know, must prevail;

Shield and banner bright, gleaming in the light,

Battling for the right we ne’er can fail.

O Thou God of all, hear us when we call,

Help us one and all by Thy grace;

When the battle’s done, and the victory won,

May we wear the crown before Thy face.

Refrain:

Rouse then, soldiers, rally round the banner,

Ready, steady, pass the word along;

Onward, forward, shout aloud, “Hosannah!”

Christ is Captain of the mighty throng.

1, November 14, 2013

Learning How to Walk…Nov. 17th

Many parents cherish the time when they watch their child take those first steps. The thrill of knowing their baby is becoming more independent is both a joy as well as an eye-opener. Physical families and church families alike are excited as the ‘babes’ learn to walk. With the awareness of this new found skill comes the understand that they will eventually be taking on more responsibilities.

For the past two years, Patrick & Brandon’a Garcia have been working as Waterview’s missionaries in Cuernavaca, Mexico. Charged with the task of spreading the gospel in Mexico, this young couple has worked hard to reach, teach and baptize almost 30 souls in the last 24 months. Sunday morning Patrick will present his ‘report’ and share with us a message of how this young congregation is…’learning how to walk.’

“…I will sing with the spirit and I will sing with the mind also.” I Corinthians 14:15

Sunday morning, November 17, 2013

The following songs are found in the hymnal, Songs of Faith & Praise.

“Blessed Be the Lord God Almighty” – 72

Our opening song is a ‘hymn’ as we sing these words to God; it’s as if we’re singing a prayer. Notice the words, “Father in heaven, how we love you. We lift Your name in all the earth. May your kingdom be established in our praises as Your people declare Your mighty works. Blessed be the Lord, God almighty! Who was, and is, and is to come.” Reading Revelation 4:8, we hear the praise being offered around the throne of God; ‘Holy, Holy, Holy is the Lord God Almighty,’ who was, and is, and is to come.”

“Walk with Me” – 394

As we consider ‘walking’ it only seems appropriate to note the words of this hymn (again, sung to HIM). The prayer is for God to walk with us through this life. The author offers a two step progression; 1) walk with me, and 2) talk with me. But we would lose the message if we fail to notice the last line in the chorus. “Let me follow in Your footsteps that trod the shore of Galilee, let me learn to pray like He did in the Garden of Gethsemane; Take my hand, take my hand, teach me Lord to understand, all my duty, all the beauty of Your love.”

“I Come to the Garden Alone” – 595

A song written by Austin Mile 100 years ago (1912) that recalls Christ in the garden. But what garden and who is source of these words. For years we have sung, “I come to the garden alone, while the dew is still on the roses; and the voice I hear, falling on my ear, the Son of God discloses…” But who is speaking? Austin Miles wrote this song as if Mary Magdalene were speaking. As you sing consider the 20th chapter of John while Mary stood outside the tomb weeping. And remember the chorus as you daily walk with Christ.

“Here I Am to Worship” – no book

A contemporary hymn (song sung to God) that proclaims the reason for our coming together to worship. Jesus told us that He is the Light of the World (John 8:12). Knowing who He is and what Has done for us should cause all Christians to humbly bow, and gratefully say, “Here I am to worship…here I am to bow down…here I am to say that You’re my God. You’re all together lovely, all together worthy, all together wonderful to me!”

“Where He Leads I’ll Follow” – 417

This old spiritual song (1885) announces our resolve to “…follow Jesus every day.” If He is my example, and if I listen to His loving words, ‘Coming follow Me…’, you should ask yourself, how will I follow Him? The only obvious answer is to get up and walk. We can never follow someone as long as we sit on the sidelines and watch. Learning how to walk implies that I’m going to be using that skill to go somewhere. Jesus is leading…are you willing to follow.

“Trust and Obey” – 915

Our invitation song is best summed up in the last line of the chorus, ‘…for there’s no other way…’ Where are you walking today? How will you face the shadows and burdens of this life? Whether we’re sitting at His feet listening and learning, or working in His kingdom (walking beside Him), we must remember to take each step trusting and obeying.

“Just a Closer Walk with Thee” – 406

“I am weak, but Thou art strong. Jesus, keep me from all wrong. I’ll be satisfied as long as I walk, dear Lord, close to Thee.” There are times when we just want to be alone. No one to hurry us, no one to push us, no one to ‘hold us accountable.’ But as we consider our life in Christ, realize distance from Him makes us weak. Learning to walk is exciting, but I can’t make it alone. Reach out and hold His hand. He will steady you as you’re learning how to walk.

1, November 4, 20131, November 4, 2013

This Is Job For…?

With a meteorite heading to earth and no one to help, you might here the phrase, “This is a job for Superman!” Then ‘faster than a speeding bullet’, and out from behind the clouds comes the DC comic hero to save the day. But even without an asteroid heading our way, we still have troubles to deal with and issues we must face. Who comes to the rescue then? Here ‘in the real world’ we have things that need to get done. We say, this is a job for ____________. When the job (big or small) needs to be done and the only ‘super man’ around isn’t able to ‘leap tall buildings’…what do you do?

Some might say, ‘Anybody can do that, it’s not too hard,’ but when it comes time to do the job we are often looking around for Superman. Some have been heard to say, “I would but…” The fact of the matter remains, there is work to be done and a worker needs to do it. It’s almost as if folks are afraid they’ll be asked to save the planet. In reality, we just need workers. Letting the Bible speak (I Cor. 6;9), we can hear God calling us to work “…for we are God’s fellow workers…”. Also Matthew and Mark both refer to labors in the kingdom (vineyard). We have work to do, no doubt. The question remains, who will do the work?

Keith Lancaster’s, Acappella made famous a song that epitomizes many in today’s society. When a task is to be done you might hear someone say, ‘Anybody could do that…somebody should do that…will anybody do it?’ Unfortunately the response is usually, ‘I would but I’m too busy.’

‘Everybody Said (But Nobody Did)’

CHORUS:
Everybody said that anybody could do The important things somebody should do Everybody knows that anybody could do All the good things that nobody did

1) Well the preacher came to me and said what I ought to do If I wanted to make my religion true He’d do it himself but he really didn’t have the time He said that the duty was mine

CHORUS:

2) Well the deacon came by and said give me a hand If you want to be going to the promised land Here is something that I don’t have time to do So I better give it to you
CHORUS:

Well I’m too busy so I tell everybody The work’s got to get done by somebody It could be done by anybody But nobody, nobody, nobody did

Earth hangs in the balance, between life and death. There’s no rocket of destruction or asteroid headed our way, but we do hang in the balance between good and evil. Imagine if Clark Kent had observed the threat and said, “That looks like trouble, maybe somebody should do something.” You might not be a ‘super man’, but you are somebody who can make a difference. Besides, it just might be that the next task is a job for you.

1, September 23, 2013

A Golden Opportunity

Have you ever wished you had known about something that was coming up so you could have been a part of it? A presentation or special program that you would have promoted, supported or at least attended if someone had ‘clued you in’ on the opportunity. Sometimes we find out about things after the fact and, to be honest, at that time, it’s a little too late. The chance to participate and grow would have been a welcome part of your schedule, but instead…you missed a golden opportunity.

The young mother would have benefited from the seminar on parenting and child raising, but no invitation was offered to her. The old coach would like to have seen and heard the athlete who was scheduled to speak at the fund raiser; but no one thought to send the old man an invitation. Granted, they might not have gone to the event, but you’ll never know unless you invite them. We miss some great opportunities to enrich the lives of others simply because we don’t say anything. We know some great gem of interest, but hold it to ourselves and miss a golden opportunity. Why do we pass up those moments to encourage and reach out? Are we just too busy taking care of our wants that we don’t give thought to what someone else might enjoy, or need?

Maybe the answer lies in our attitude or perhaps in our lack of courage and conviction. Either way, if you have some good news to share and an invitation to offer but instead hold it back you are, for all practical purposes, taking away an opportunity.

The same can be said about our faith in Christ. Certainly you’ve read Matthew 28 as our Savior exhorts us to, “Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit…” But how will ‘the nations’ become disciples (be baptized) if they have never hear about the Son? Romans 10:14 states it best; “How then will they call on Him in whom they have not believed? How will they believe in Him whom they have not heard? And how will they hear without a preacher?” There must be someone who will teach (preach) about the Savior. Someone must be ready to offer an invitation to ‘come’ and know about Jesus. Who will tell your friends about heaven? Will you share with them the golden opportunity for salvation?

In the early 1900’s, James Rowe penned a song that some classify as sad and ‘depressing.’ A song that reminds us of the responsibility we have to teach (even show) our faith in Christ to our friends. Have you taken the time to tell someone about Jesus? They can never believe unless they hear and they’ll never hear unless they are told. Don’t wait for someone else to ‘offer the invitation’, that opportunity of a life time is yours and yours alone.

When in the better land, before the bar we stand
how deeply grieved our souls will be
If any lost one there should cry in deep despair;
‘You never mentioned Him to me.’

Refrain:
You never mentioned Him to me.
Nor help me not the light to see,
You met me day by day and knew I was astray
Yet never mentioned Him to me.

O let us spread the word, where ‘er it may be heard
Help groping souls the light to see.
That yonder none may say, ‘You showed me not the way.’
You never mentioned Him to me.

Refrain:

A few sweet words may guide a lost one to His side
or turn sad eyes to Calvary.
So work as days go by, that yonder none may cry,
‘You never mentioned Him to me.’

Refrain:

The old athlete might enjoy hearing some motivational talk from his younger counterpart, and the young mother might need help raising her child in the nurture and admonition of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4). But will anyone invite them to come, learn and grown. Without an invitation or a word of encouragement we miss a golden opportunity to provide that support. But more over, without sharing Jesus to our friends and family we miss an even greater opportunity to ‘turn sad eyes to Calvary.’

1, July 9, 20131, June 19, 2013

Do We Want More? (part 2)

Oliver is a young, orphan boy who, at the tender age of nine, lives each day with other orphans at the ‘workhouse.’ His daily routine is much like every boy in the orphanage. He isn’t a trouble maker, but he does something no one else is willing to do. After finishing his bowl of gruel (porridge), with a trembling hand, he returns to food line and utters the famous line, “Please Sir, I want some more…”

Charles Dickens authors this literally piece and many have adapted Oliver Twist to their own version of orphans and the homeless. The story is an interesting one, but our focus is centered on the words of this fictitious nine-year old, “…I want some more.” If we’re truthful with ourselves we would admit that each of us, in some form or fashion want more. But as we’ve studied previous, what more do we want?

Let’s continue the study of the hymn written and composed by Philip Bliss in 1873. Interestingly enough, this song was penned less than 35 years after Dickens wrote Oliver Twist. As you might remember, we sing the word ‘more’ twenty-four (24) times during the course of song “More Holiness Give Me”. Let’s continue our deeper examination of what more we could possibly be aspiring toward.

In verse two we sing (and seek); more gratitude, more trust, more pride and more hope . More tears, more pain, more meekness and more praise. One by one we consider what are we asking God to give us ‘more’ of:

1) More gratitude give me… Our prayers are often laced with thankfulness. We’re thankful for the day, the food, the good night’s rest so why ask for more thankfulness? Gratitude is synonymous with thankfulness but often we ramble out our prayer of thanks without processing why we have what we have. God has given us EVERYTHING! For that alone we should have gratitude. Personally, I don’t get tired of hearing thank you from my children. Do you suppose God is the same?

2) More trust in the Lord… David wrote in Psalm 20:7, “Some boast (trust) in chariots and some in horses, But we will boast (trust) in the name of the Lord, our God.” With some much self-proclaimed wisdom, our culture and this present generation has come to trust in self. So much has been accomplished and achieved during the last 50 years we have become masters in our own right. What do we trust? Who do we trust? Would that we prayer for more trust in the Lord. “…the foolishness of God is wiser than men, and the weakness of God is stronger than men.”

3) More pride in His glory. Each of us knows the swell of pride we feel when our team is victorious. We take pride in knowing we have succeeded in this task or that accomplishment. But more pride in HIS glory means I take pride in giving God glory. We humble ourselves and take pride in knowing our God, He is Alive.

4) More hope in His word. The word “hope” can mean to long for something, wish for it; or it can mean trust or confidence. Our hope in God’s word is not to wish for it to be what it claims to be, but to put our trust and our confidence in His word. You’ll remember we sang that we pray for more trust in the Lord (previous line), and now we turn our prayer to be confident (hope) in His word!

5) More tears for His sorrows. Each week we gather and remember the Lord’s death, burial and resurrection. With the Lord’s Supper we keep Jesus’ sacrifice every in our minds and hearts. But be careful that this time doesn’t become routine. Remember the words of Isaiah (chapter 53) when he prophesy’s about the Messiah saying, “…He is despised and rejected of men; a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief…” (KJV) Do we weep when we consider His death? We need more tears for His sorrows.

6) More pain at His grief. Again, looking to Isaiah 53 we are reminded of His grief. As we sing this hymn we are asking that we feel the pain, as we shed the tears, for our Savior’s grief. Undoubtedly you’ve said something like, “That breaks my heart!” Simply an expression of pain for someone’s grief. Does Jesus’ suffering (grief) break your heart?

7) More meekness in trial. My mind immediately goes to the book of Matthew and the words of Jesus in the 5th chapter, “…whoever slaps you on your right cheek, turn to him the other also.” (vs. 39) But we shouldn’t be surprised when we consider what Jesus said just a few sentences earlier (vs. 5), “Blessed are the meek: for they shall inherit the earth.” When someone slaps you down (trials), are you fighting mad…or meekly enduring?

8) More praise for relief. In baseball there is a position known as the ‘relief pitcher.’ The man who take over for the ‘starting’ pitcher. He may be there because the starter was injured or perhaps just exhausted. Either way, there is a relief for the starter. In the sport of baseball the relief pitcher isn’t always praised. He may fail to ‘provide’ the relief he was called to deliver. But in the case of Jesus, He is our answer to the injury and exhaustion we feel on a daily basis. He is our relief, our salvation, and He never fails. When we understand and accept Him in that way, we’ll know that we need to give Him more praise for our salvation…He is our relief…

We’ll continue this song in later weeks, but until that time take a look at the last verse of this song; there are still eight more…’mores’.

1, June 16, 20131, June 14, 2013

Five Non-Negotiable Duties of a Father

Being the father of three young adults and writing an article for fathers may seem a little pretentious. But by no means do I intend to come across self-promoting. Realizing our youngest is 15, and our older two children are college students is humbling in its own right. But perhaps there are a few small token ideas we fathers should consider together…

Let me propose to you that there are 5 Non-Negotiable Duties that fathers have toward their families and for their children. Whether you have one or a dozen children, if you lose sight of these five principles for raising your family, you will surely struggle to fulfill your obligation as a father. (Singing may be absent from this list, but you will find it’s influence is ever present.)

1) A father must cultivate a sense of family identity. Hold up the family as not only important but a place each member is valued. I remember growing up and being told, “Remember, you’re a Bruce.” One youth minister, before taking the kids on mission trip, would remind the students with these words, “Remember whose you are.” As a family we found honor in our name sake, and as God’s children we cherished the identity we share in His family. Perhaps the connection (music-wise) is found in the spiritual song written by Isaac Watts in the early 1700’s; “I’m not ashamed to own my Lord, nor to defend His cause…” When we cultivate a strong sense of family, our children will know they are safe and unashamed of who they are. Solomon gave a commendation in Proverbs 22:1, “A good name is to be more desired than great wealth…” Father’s, cultivate your families identity but teach them to honor Jesus, the name above all names.

2) A father must regularly demonstrate love to his wife. Without hesitation we consider Paul’s words to the church in Ephesus (Ephesians 5:25) as he writes, “Husbands, love your wives…” Alone, these four words are scripture and suffice, but we are left with the question, ‘HOW do I love my wife?’ The next seven words answer the question, “…just as Christ also loved the church…” But to the un-churched the question may remain, how did Christ love the church? Complete the verse, “…and gave Himself up for her.” We realize this means the ultimate sacrifice. Christ died for us! Husbands (Fathers) is your wife, your family, important enough to you that you are willing to sacrifice yourself for them?

3) A father must give his children the freedom to fail. Look no further than Luke 15:11-32 when Jesus tells us the story of the ‘prodigal son’. (Go to the text and read it again for a refresher.) The father of two boys is very affluent and provides for his family. But when his youngest decides to ‘move out’ and make his own way in life, his father doesn’t stop him. The young man is about to experience some difficult times and his struggles will be crippling. Certainly his father realizes this, but is still willing to give him his ‘freedom.’ Why would a loving father allow such a foolish mistake? Why not tell him ‘no’ and look out for his son’s best interest? The father, in Christ’s parable, is letting his son fail so he’ll learn what’s most important. Never assume it’s easy to let your children struggle through difficult times. But if they are to grow and learn and appreciate the blessings of life, they often have to fail. But it’s then that I remember the old invitation song written by Charles Gabriel, “Patient, loving, and tenderly still the Father pleads; Hear, O hear Him calling, calling now for thee…” Fathers hurt when their children fail, but often in failure our children learn. Our prayer is that they’ll learn and grow from their mistakes, then return home.

4) A father must guard his tongue and tone. This can be hard for those who are ‘manly men.’ We’re rough and gruff and often bark out commands to the troops. Fathers, we must be very careful to consider the example we’re setting. You’ve heard the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree. The way you raise your children will be the way in which they learn to treat themselves and eventually raise their families. Discipline falls into this category too. We are commanded to discipline our children, but unbridled punishment can be detrimental. God’s word is our guide…Proverbs 13:24 “He who withhold his rod (discipline) hates his son, but he who loves him disciplines him diligently.” Notice that when we fail to discipline (withhold the rod) we, in essence, are ‘hating’ our children. However, if our discipline is rooted in love we’re following God’s word. Solomon tells us again in the 16th chapter of Proverbs, verse 24…“Pleasant words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.” Often we reserve kind words for strangers and inject venom upon our family. How about giving our family (our children) some of that ‘pleasant honeycomb.’

5) A father must build a relationship of trust with his children…built on God’s Word and not on human knowledge. How much do you value God’s word in the presence of your children? Do your children see you embrace the word of God and make Him your focus? Or do we have a tendency to slide up next to the world and let culture dictate our choices? Reading God’s word, and making God your priority is building a relationship on Him and His word. Taking your children to the soccer game instead of worship on Sunday morning is not building a relationship on God’s Word, but on the world’s ways.

Perhaps Solomon says it best in the first seven chapters of Proverbs as he writes the phrase, “My son…” seventeen times. Would that we instruct our children over and over again about the glory of God and the admonition to live for Him. “My son, do not forget my teaching, but let your heart keep my commandments; for length of days and years of life and peace they will add to you. Do not let kindness and truth leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart. So you will find favor and good repute (reputation) in the sight of God and man. Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.” Proverbs 3

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God’s Chosen Fathers…June 16th

On a clear Sunday afternoon in the mid-1990’s our family went to eat lunch after morning services. As we were getting our children out of their car seats and into the restaurant, Logan, then three, asked, “Since we celebrate mommy’s on Mother’s Day and daddy’s on Father’s Day, when do we celebrate ‘Son Day’?” My response; “Every day…is son’s day.”

But if the truth be know, every day we should be recognizing the Son of God and celebrate Him. This past month we took some time to honor our mothers, and this Sunday we’ll take a minute and consider our dads. Father’s Day and Mother’s Day were designed by our country to honor our parents (Ephesians 6:1, 2). But men we must remember our responsibility as dads. Join us as we consider the idea that God has chosen us to be fathers.

“…I will sing with the spirit and I will sing with the mind also.” I Corinthians 14:15

Sunday morning, June 16, 2013

The following songs are found in the hymnal, Songs of Faith & Praise.

“Restore My Soul” – no book

As we sing this song to God we’re asking Him to restore us, revive us and renew us. The text for this hymn is Psalm 80, “O God, restore us and cause Your face to shine upon us…” Surely we have all felt weary, empty and ‘cold’ in our zeal for God. But this morning as we sing, we’ll be calling on Him to renew our love for Him, rebuild our faith in Him and restore our soul.

“Night with Ebon Pinion” – no book

This is an old spiritual song that dates back to the mid-1800’s, with some very strong Biblical applications. The poetry from this song has caused many to abandon it, but in so doing we lose a beautiful message about the last hours of Christ’s life on earth. Terms like “ebon pinion” and “brooded o’re the vale’ have perplexed many Christians into leaving this hymn behind, but consider what we’re singing. Ebon means ‘black in color’ while pinions are the wings/feathers of a bird. To ‘brood’ is to hover or sit upon, and the ‘vale’ is the valley. Now pull them all together with this translation; The dark night had settled and was hovering over the valley like the wings of bird… We have an obligation to take the time to understand what we’re singing. Maybe that’s why some of our older hymns have been tossed out; we would rather not think about the words.

“God is So Good” – 83

A simple song with a complex message. God is good, He answers prayer and He cares for me. Would that be the reason we sing the final verse, “I love Him so…” or is our faithfulness unconditional? He died for us when we were undeserving. Do you love Him because He’s good and answers your prayers? Simple, but complex…

“Walk with Me” – 394

Less than 50 years old, we sing this hymn asking for God’s guidance and presence in our daily lives. The refrain is a personal plea that I will follow in His footsteps from Galilee to Gethsemane. Fathers, remember our responsibility to lead our families; we’ll do it best when we walk with Jesus.

“Faith of Our Fathers” – 754

Fredrick Faber captured the message here of a godly heritage. When our father’s are faithful and pass that faith down to their children, we are blessed. But fathers, have you ever been confined to the dungeon, or faced the fire and sword? Who of us have been chained in prisons dark? Hebrews 11:32-38 gives us the remembrance of these faithful (fore)fathers as we look at verses 1 & 2, “Now faith, is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen. For by it the men of old gained approval.” “Faith of our fathers! Holy faith! We will be true to Thee (God) till death!”

“Step by Step” – 15

Before our lesson we’ll medley Faith of Our Fathers with Step by Step. Song leaders, since the key signatures are the same and the message is sequential, the flow of these two songs make a beautiful combination. The tradition followed by the contemporary makes for a powerful reminder that our faith in God will seek Him in the daily. Each step toward God shows our families, and this lost world, that we are devoted to walking in His ways.

“I Am Coming, Lord” – 923

“I hear Thy welcome voice that calls me, Lord, to Thee…” As our invitation song we open the door, so to speak, for those who are lost or struggling in their faith to come back to God. An invitation song isn’t the only time we seek the lost, but it’s a great opportunity. In our hymnals, Faith & Praise, only the first verse is provided. But this Sunday morning we’ll revisit Louis Hartsough’s original writing; ” ‘Tis (It is) Jesus (who) calls me on to perfect faith and love, to perfect hope and peace and trust, for earth and heav’n above…” To those who are hurting, sad and lost in sin, there is peace in the blood that flowed from Calvary.

“To Christ Be True” – 736

What better way to end the service this morning than to reconfirm our faith in our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. We’ll join our voices and sing to encourage each other to be true to Christ. Why, ‘…for He will go with you, and help you’ through all your conflicts. But more importantly, because we have been chosen to lead our children to Him.